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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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« on: October 28, 2014, 01:48:12 AM »
I didn't know what I was going to do after my exBPD left. The reality is six months after her leaving I met a beautiful lady on here, who understands all of this. Unlike my friends I've tried to talk to. So there is life out there after going through hell.
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« Reply #1 on: October 28, 2014, 03:38:32 AM »
Good to hear.

Hoping that I find somebody who is better than my BPD ex.
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« Reply #2 on: October 28, 2014, 04:44:37 AM »
Quote from: Startattoo2 on October 28, 2014, 03:38:32 AM
Good to hear.

Hoping that I find somebody who is better than my BPD ex.

Anyone who doesn't have a PD is basically better than your BPD ex Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #3 on: October 28, 2014, 04:50:45 AM »
Quote from: camuse on October 28, 2014, 04:44:37 AM
Quote from: Startattoo2 on October 28, 2014, 03:38:32 AM
Good to hear.

Hoping that I find somebody who is better than my BPD ex.

Anyone who doesn't have a PD is basically better than your BPD ex Smiling (click to insert in post)

No truer words were ever spoken !
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« Reply #4 on: October 28, 2014, 06:31:38 AM »
Maybe BPD family should start a dating site!  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #5 on: October 28, 2014, 06:46:12 AM »
Quote from: peiper on October 28, 2014, 04:50:45 AM
Quote from: camuse on October 28, 2014, 04:44:37 AM
Quote from: Startattoo2 on October 28, 2014, 03:38:32 AM
Good to hear.

Hoping that I find somebody who is better than my BPD ex.

Anyone who doesn't have a PD is basically better than your BPD ex Smiling (click to insert in post)

No truer words were ever spoken !

Anyone who either has a:

1. Calm persona 2. Ounce of integrity  3. Speck of empathy  4. Gram of dignity and respect for others 5. an opinion that stays the same, or 6. even just a heartbeat

is better than my ex!  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #6 on: October 28, 2014, 06:47:58 AM »
This was a genuine realisation I had when I worried I wouldn't be able to meet anyone as good as my ex (still in the fog, a while back).

I thought, I will have to downgrade, I won't find anyone as hot as her.

Then I realised, almost anyone would be an "upgrade" from a BPD Smiling (click to insert in post) regardless of "hotness" - simply anyone not mentally ill will be an upgrade. The only way is up Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #7 on: October 28, 2014, 10:36:37 AM »
I am enjoying the relationship with myself... .hiking with friends, motorcycling... .pouring myself in to my photography and just building new relationships with in my workplace and beyond.  I can pursue all of these interests that I have (financially and time investment),  in a way that I never could if in a relationship. Not even looking around or interested in any dating after what I have been through... .but yes... .there is life. Lots of it!
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« Reply #8 on: October 28, 2014, 01:02:15 PM »
Quote from: Deeno02 on October 28, 2014, 06:31:38 AM
Maybe BPD family should start a dating site!  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

Ha, ha, ha. Might have to start a sister support site after that. bpdfamilydatingsupport.com
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« Reply #9 on: October 28, 2014, 01:16:45 PM »
Quote from: fred6 on October 28, 2014, 01:02:15 PM
Quote from: Deeno02 on October 28, 2014, 06:31:38 AM
Maybe BPD family should start a dating site!  Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)

Ha, ha, ha. Might have to start a sister support site after that. bpdfamilydatingsupport.com

Why not! We can help ourselves, while helping ourselves... .Laugh out loud (click to insert in post)
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