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I wish someone would have reminded me of this right after I left. I was in such a fog and I couldn't think strait. It would have saved me time, money, aggravation and kept her blocked from my accounts. Don't share them with anyone either!
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Yep, I changed every single one and was still very paranoid for a time that somehow he was getting access. After 5 mths I have calmed down about this now, I don't believe he has hacked any of my accounts.
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Changed passwords. Changed locks/garage door. I even asked for keys/garage door opener back - nothing, though it doesn't matter now. I'm glad I had people in my life that realized what was happening. I hope she didn't cause you too much damage (emotional bits aside).
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Yes Pingo. I was keychained to our iMac. The whole thing was prearranged. She had the jump on me for what felt like months. But in the end it turns our her lack of impulse control is what did her in. That last attack was to provoke me to hit her back so she could have me removed and brand me legally as the bad guy - regardless of the facts. I just turned the other cheek and took it. Because I was tired of playing her games. She got a free ride in a police car the next night with a complementary set of steel bracelets as an accessory. She must have looked simply fabulous in that orange jumpsuit. Something kept me completely calm that night. It must have been a life-saving release of opioids from my brain, because I was completely calm and at peace in face of my attacker. I survived that night, but I watch my back and stay vigilant at all times now.
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