I have seen threads before about Birthdays and Christmas but what about anniversaries?
Both wedding and dating anniversaries, were they generally pleasant because the attention was on your partner? Or were they just as chaotic as other events?
Could they be a trigger for your pwBPD? (I notice a LOT of people mentioning BU's etc close to anniversaries).
Did you have frequent anniversaries? For example: one week anniversary, one month, six months?
Do share, it would be interesting to hear more.
Funny, i was the one who remembered our 1yr dating anniversary, not her. So Im sure nothing crosses her radar on it.