Traits of quiet high functioning BPD: speech

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Anyone have a list of traits of a quiet high functioning ex BPD.

I noticed the following

Talking at inaudible volume. Although no problem  shouting when angry!

Mumbling so that I had to ask her to repeat herself, which would annoy her.

Believing she had asked me a question even though she hadn't even spoken.

Biting  her fingers, just beneath her finger nails until the skin was broken.

Silent treatment then wanting sex and then back to the silent treatment

She said she could separate physical and emotional in sex

Said she could feel two different emotions at once.

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Anyone have a list of traits of a quiet high functioning ex BPD.

I noticed the following

Talking at inaudible volume. Although no problem  shouting when angry!

Mumbling so that I had to ask her to repeat herself, which would annoy her.

Believing she had asked me a question even though she hadn't even spoken.

Biting  her fingers, just beneath her finger nails until the skin was broken.

Silent treatment then wanting sex and then back to the silent treatment

She said she could separate physical and emotional in sex

Said she could feel two different emotions at once.