I wonder when our BPD ex is with the next partner if they then will still use the same names during the idealization stage as they called us or do they instead switch it up a bit or just make new ones? For example stuff like:
"My hero"
"My knight in shining armor"
"My sweet prince"
"The king of my heart"
Etc... .etc... .
Wonder if they recycle the same names with the new guy or if they instead remember "Hey I used that one on the last dude". I guess maybe Joe Schmo is the new "Sweet Prince"?