All other friends INCLUDING PARENTS AND RELATIVES did not respond to my text saying I was feeling really bad. Or they swiftly responded. NOBODY PICKS UP THE PHONE. NOBODY CARES.
If there's one time in life when friends and family really need to step up to the plate and ping you its when you're in the fallout of a BPD relationship. Unfortunately, most people just don't get it. I guess at least we'll know what to do if we see a friend or family member get railroaded by a BPD relationship -- we'll reach out a hand.
In the meantime, we have these boards.