I've been listening to Taylor's Blank Space. The lyrics seems to be writen from the perspective of a NPD IMO.
It's funny you should say that, I see a lot of BPD perspective in there too. My exN/BPDw was very much like in the video. However, where the difference lies is that she would never have recognised herself like that because the NPD stopped her from seeing anything but perfection in herself.
You should maybe check out the Bart Baker Parody version. It always makes me smile when I'm having a bad day. Now that was my exN/BPDw