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« on: January 11, 2015, 07:19:56 AM »



As you know my ex tried to Face time me after 5 months NC and me being the one completely blocked and told to never contact her again.  I ignored this attempt so my NC boundaries are still strong, my question is this?

Why would she randomly try to bait me with this unblocking and Face time call after 5 months, and why would she do this when shes been with my replacement for 4 months?

Is she getting bored of the new guy? from experience could someone please try and explain what goes through their head, or maybe what their expectations are from such behaviour.

Thank you all     
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« Reply #1 on: January 11, 2015, 08:33:30 AM »

Are you sure she did not hit face time by accident?  Could it be a butt dial and your over thinking it?  Was there more than one attempt?
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« Reply #2 on: January 11, 2015, 08:41:00 AM »

Are you sure she did not hit face time by accident?  Could it be a butt dial and your over thinking it?  Was there more than one attempt?

She had blocked my mobile number, I know this because a few months ago i tried ringing her and it went straight to the busy dial tone, then called withheld of a friends phone and it rang, she has an iPhone like myself, so to call me she would have had to:

Go to settings

find contacts

go to blocked list

click edit

delete my number from block list

then make call

So i know for certain this wasn't an accidental call
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