hey Panda!
The show WILL drop for her one of these days. Karma does happen. And as it is happening you will know because his x wife will ACT UP even more... .They do get it!
Oh the shoe has dropped and the kids do get it! The stuff at our house starting blowing up at Thanksgiving
I think you read the thread 4 aborted tries to get to Chicago... .
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=237811.msg12533387#msg12533387It looks like the Thanksgiving incident caused uBPDxw to lose one of her friends... .that friend did all the driving to the hospital and took care of D14 while her mom was having her "hypochondriac breakdown" and finally after 4 years has had enough.
Anyway the uBPDxw's acting up made us think it might be time to check the public court records again because in the past her freak-outs have typically meant another eviction was coming. She's been living in a hotel for 6 months so we didn't know if we'd find anything but low and behold she has 2 felony charges against her for a large bad check to someone and a civil case against her with someone else.
Now this is bad enough but at Christmas D18 comes home from her first semester of college for Christmas break and gets an email from the school telling her that her tuition wasn't paid (by her UBPDmom who claimed there was a "Family Trust", that she is not welcome back for the next semester and she now owes them $15,000 and she cannot get her transcript (she made deans' list) for her semester there.  :)aughter has since gotten herself in a local state school while she figures out what to do next.
Both girls have gone low contact with mom and are refusing to see her (court order or not) mean while mom has 2 court dates next week.
Things got a little stressful there for awhile but my honey his handling it like a pro. Having a pw BPD in your life is not easy but I have to say that my SO and I are getting better at seeing signs of trouble, predicting some of her behaviors and are better at controlling ours.
I hope your SS will catch on too when he's a little older... .you never know