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[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

hi there everyone,

my name is james, i live in Ireland.

i am late to this forum, as i am going through a family break up, well we are broken up for  a while, but i am still going through it myself... .my partner walked out on me taking the children on the 28 dec 2013... .after i asked her to get some help.

I am fighting in the family court system to get to see the children, but it seems they have been alienated against me now.

So there we go, that is a start i suppose.

I need some help in to why, and how BPD works to get my head around all this.

Thanks in advance, J.

[James B.]

hi there everyone,

my name is james, i live in Ireland.

i am late to this forum, as i am going through a family break up, well we are broken up for  a while, but i am still going through it myself... .my partner walked out on me taking the children on the 28 dec 2013... .after i asked her to get some help.

I am fighting in the family court system to get to see the children, but it seems they have been alienated against me now.

So there we go, that is a start i suppose.

I need some help in to why, and how BPD works to get my head around all this.

Thanks in advance, J.

[jammo1989]

hi there everyone,

my name is james, i live in Ireland.

i am late to this forum, as i am going through a family break up, well we are broken up for  a while, but i am still going through it myself... .my partner walked out on me taking the children on the 28 dec 2013... .after i asked her to get some help.

I am fighting in the family court system to get to see the children, but it seems they have been alienated against me now.

So there we go, that is a start i suppose.

I need some help in to why, and how BPD works to get my head around all this.

Thanks in advance, J.

Welcome James, wheey another James  Im from the UK to, you have come to the right place, before I start trying to educate you about this disorder, could you tell us a bit about her past like childhood because that within itself will help you to understand all of this a little more. 

[Mutt]

Hi James B.



I'm sorry to hear that. It's frustrating, confusing and painful when your partner leaves with the kids and you are fighting the judicial system. It's hard. I can relate.

Many members here share similar experiences and can offer support and guidance.

It helps to talk.

Hang in there.

--Mutt