
Whatever the future holds it will be long and hard to get to a good place.
You cant make him do anything. You can only control what you do. Hopefully creating an environment where he can decide if he wants to join you or not.
Therapy will not work unless he wants to go, and couples therapy rarely works as it turns into a blame and denial session
Have you read through the lessons over to the right?>>
Before you start worrying about what the end options are, there are a lot of steps you can take to protect yourself now.
Is there any particular aspect that is worrying you the most?