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LasVegasPunk89

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Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic Partner
Relationship status: in a relationship for about 1yrear a nd 1 month
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« on: March 01, 2015, 06:27:34 AM »

My ex fiance or fiance started with acting on her normal rollercoaster and I noticed that there is something wrong this time around she stopped taking her meds and she is hanging with an old drug friend of hers and only this friend and 3other friends have a big impact on are relationship it's not me just being with her but four of her friends and her ex husband as well she will lie to me and act like I'm not helping ememotionally or being supportive in her activities theses people have such a big impact on her and there not to great one a bdsm master his sub is her drug friend her mother only think about the money tries convincing her to leave me for everything small big and now I found out that there back in her life I know her mother is always I don't mind the others  are convincing she asked her friend this older guy is ex military and is in to bdsm and was a pimp now ex pimp and he tells her I will take you on your spirit jurny long story short is she gets attack buy some big guy he takes the big attack dog and runs and don't fight against him about to the bad part he stops and her friend comes back and that guy and him talking about everything while she is in tears crying and she tells me and I freak out and about to call him and she takes the phone so I told her to get him to talk with him and she didn't want me to and I don't think she is telling me the truth about it and about everything right now about leaving me I know that there is more to it she loves me she sez then thay come back and she is over me or with me but hates me
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: He moved out mid March
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« Reply #1 on: March 01, 2015, 07:45:19 AM »

Hi LasVegas,

I'm not sure what to say. 

It sounds like you are dealing with some serious and dangerous situations.  Attention(click to insert in post)

I cannot emphasize this enough.

I think your first priority should be your own safety. 
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LasVegasPunk89

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Relationship status: in a relationship for about 1yrear a nd 1 month
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« Reply #2 on: March 01, 2015, 09:25:22 AM »

I understand it's all confusing and more than mest up all in to many ways.

And I know how to deal with people like that was raised in a wrong place and I can pick up on things like that if it came to anything like that I am not in any danger of any sort.

I am just looking for another p

Opinon with what I sed 
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