Ninexoxo
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What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Romantic partner
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« on: March 11, 2015, 04:08:23 AM » |
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My BPD wife of 3 years has what looks like many aliases/profiles... .Many! Besides the obvious sneaking around Facebook and the like (date sites) what does she do with so many aliases? Asked vaigly but of course she lied (she does this often and I say nicely at times, you don't have to, I love you do what you want just be honest - I mean this) She doesn't trust me much, I don't walk on eggsjellls or take any ___ (walk away kind of guy, yellin, angry are a game I won't play) i once said fine do whatever or whoever you want, open relationship... .She said hell no but did anyway. So did I and wow she flipped out... .Wait woman! You did 2 side relationships and 1 was for months, I had a weekend and told you when you asked... .What's with the double standards? You like the thrill of cheating?
You get the idea. I can tell when she lies (easy tells now) I try not to confront angry or very often but I don't stay to be lied to for more than 20-30 seconds and smile, walk away, excuse myself or say "I don't stay to be lied to, you don't have to anyway) I can't get through, I don't care what she does, I get acussed of everything she does (another tell) and I am almost always calm, cool and tell her I love her what and I'm not going anywhere, I would love to share, join or just know the truth and you can do whatever you want... .Doesn't work, game is old and repeats like a skipped record. What the hell does she do with 100's of profiles, aliases most not linked to facecrack, my face or date sites?
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