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« on: March 17, 2015, 03:07:23 AM »

I have for a few months been here to seek support for my pwBPD ... she is my co worker and recently boss ,,  I was seeing her starting to crack at my previous very limited contact ,,and today was granted a requested transfer ,,she is no longer my boss or co worker ... .I feel a great relief being able to take the last bit of power and control she had on me away ... .now I can go NC at last ,,not sure what the level of abandonment she will feel but I hope it's not severe and this is finally the end ... .
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« Reply #1 on: March 17, 2015, 10:55:35 PM »

Hi ghost story,

It must have been incredibly difficult and stressful working with your co-worker turned boss and you got your requested transfer.

That's good news!
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« Reply #2 on: March 18, 2015, 01:45:28 AM »

It was very stressful hour cuts ,,write ups ... .anything to retaliate when felt slighted by me and you know you can't explain by saying she's a borderline haha ... .thank you sir for the encouragement

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« Reply #3 on: March 18, 2015, 01:50:36 PM »

It's very hard when a boss makes it personal in a work-place and it's directed at you.

It's a new day for you.

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« Reply #4 on: March 18, 2015, 04:19:59 PM »

yes sir ... .and thank you
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