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Gstumpf
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« on: April 03, 2015, 10:10:57 AM »

I just discovered this BPD I never knew anythj about this but it sounds exactly line what I have been through.  I never even gave this any taught I have children with my  BPD and thet is the hardest part the isolation from my kids
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« Reply #1 on: April 03, 2015, 11:12:00 AM »

  Welcome. Sorry about being isolated from your children.
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« Reply #2 on: April 03, 2015, 12:22:53 PM »

Hello Gstumpf,

Yes, it’s part of a ‘cluster’ of personality disorders that appear to be closely related.  My blood ran cold reading the criteria for BPD and realizing my now ex gf fit all but one symptom... . But, I was partially relieved, in that there was finally an answer to her bizarre behavior, then equally fearful as I read further…

But keep reading - especially the various related articles around here.  If your wife/ partner(?) has BPD, you’ve found the best online place to learn what you can to help everyone involved.  And - keep posting … after giving serious consideration to where you’d like the r/s to go.  

Last ... .it’s hard to ‘welcome’ anyone to this situation, but we do
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« Reply #3 on: April 03, 2015, 12:24:03 PM »

I just discovered this BPD I never knew anythj about this but it sounds exactly line what I have been through.  I never even gave this any taught I have children with my  BPD and thet is the hardest part the isolation from my kids

Hi Gstumpf!  Are you still in a relationship or in the middle of detatching? How long was/is your relationship? Why are you isolated from your children?
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