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I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away
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Hello there,
I have been a passive reader on this amazing forum and have learned a lot in last one year.
I had never heard about BPD until 15 months ago when I started searching aggressively on why my wife behaves like she behaves and how its damaging our two small kids (S7 and D3).
Over this last year, I tried so many things to get her diagnosed and get her treated and save my kids, but things went out of control and I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away and doesn't respond or let me talk to my kids. I am still trying my best to get kids into a safe environment but its a long journey.
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Quote from: BPDResearch on April 05, 2015, 01:42:54 AM
Over this last year, I tried so many things to get her diagnosed and get her treated and save my kids, but things went out of control and I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away and doesn't respond or let me talk to my kids. I am still trying my best to get kids into a safe environment but its a long journey.
What is the current strategy on this?
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Quote from: Skip on April 05, 2015, 03:52:21 PM
Quote from: BPDResearch on April 05, 2015, 01:42:54 AM
Over this last year, I tried so many things to get her diagnosed and get her treated and save my kids, but things went out of control and I am now separated from her and kids. She took them away and doesn't respond or let me talk to my kids. I am still trying my best to get kids into a safe environment but its a long journey.
What is the current strategy on this?
I am continuing to work with my in-laws to help with situation as they tend to think that nothing is wrong. Apparently I learned that my wife's mom was diagnosed and treated for Depression. I am speculating even she might have this disorder.
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What happened (from her perspective) that lead to taking the kids away? Do you have visitaton?
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Artanis, I am sorry you are going through this
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