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« on: April 10, 2015, 08:45:35 AM » |
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What are some of the craziest things your BPD has said?
"I don't like things made for poor people. I am allergic to them"
"Ow! YOU HIT ME STOP HITTING ME!" (As they are hitting themselves in the head)
"So you see beauty in this beast?" (Said while devouring ice cream)
"I am more impoverished than anyone" (even though I have a huge trust fund. You pay for dinner... .Again)
"I am going to sue. Its better than working"
"I am not 300 pounds" (I am 312).
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bunnyrabit
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« Reply #1 on: April 10, 2015, 09:09:47 AM » |
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Your BPD sounds more like a douchebag.
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Beach_Babe
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« Reply #2 on: April 10, 2015, 09:16:54 AM » |
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"I never said that!"
"I am a thin mint. Everyone wants me"
"So you are taking THEIR side? That is it. I am calling the police"
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JRT
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« Reply #3 on: April 10, 2015, 09:31:24 AM » |
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'Good night, I love you' (the next day she broke up via text and moved out of my house while I was out of town for work).
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Mr Hollande
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« Reply #4 on: April 10, 2015, 09:32:24 AM » |
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Not sure about the craziest but a pretty far out one that springs to mind is "I bet he wouldn't turn me down though" in response to me mentioning how a good friend of ours had expressed concern over her drinking.
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Beach_Babe
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« Reply #5 on: April 10, 2015, 09:33:20 AM » |
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Ouch. That is awful JRT. :)id you have any idea this was coming?
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JRT
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« Reply #6 on: April 10, 2015, 09:35:00 AM » |
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Your BPD sounds more like a douchebag. Agree... .you might be better off without him |
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Beach_Babe
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« Reply #7 on: April 10, 2015, 09:39:20 AM » |
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Npd comorbid?
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« Reply #8 on: April 10, 2015, 10:04:09 AM » |
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Ouch. That is awful JRT. :)id you have any idea this was coming? Zero clue... .she had only sold all of her furniture and moved in three weeks prior! Two weeks before, we ordered our wedding rings! We had made weekend plans and she began planning a house party for friends. Although we had recycled (it was before I knew about BPD, I thought that it was just a 'thing' that she needed to get out of her system and it appeared that she did), we NEVER argued or disagreed. I still shake my head in disbelief when I think about it |
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« Reply #9 on: April 10, 2015, 10:42:28 AM » |
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Npd comorbid? Hi Beach, Google BPD men or Borderline men comorbid. You may find some of the reading insightful. Did your ex discuss his mother with you? |
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« Reply #10 on: April 10, 2015, 06:08:48 PM » |
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" your mom didnt die of cancer she killed herself because you are a scumbag"
Enough said!
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« Reply #11 on: April 11, 2015, 06:54:35 AM » |
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"I never said that" for my ex as well. Oh and one of the last ones, "I didn't have sex with him until you broke it off"... .She broke up with me to leave me for my replacement.  |
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« Reply #12 on: April 11, 2015, 11:00:54 AM » |
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He told me "you've gained 10lbs a week since we got married".
At the time I did the math and that would have put me over 1550 lbs! I weigh 240, I weighed 224 when we got married.
Also he calls my kids "monsters" and "needed an exorcism" if having a temper tantrum and proceed to make the sign of the cross.
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« Reply #13 on: April 11, 2015, 12:13:45 PM » |
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'You always want to argue with me'. This was when I had simply said I didn't want to do something.
'I can't say I love you'. Which was then followed by robotic-monotone voice saying she loved me in response to me saying it to her in the first place'
'I don't know if she was flirting with me'. In response to telling me a girl had been talking to her all night at a club.
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« Reply #14 on: April 11, 2015, 12:24:10 PM » |
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"I don't like things made for poor people. I am allergic to them"
"I am more impoverished than anyone"
"I am going to sue. Its better than working" The thing that jumps out at me here is the internal conflict. Although that may remain unresolved with your ex we all have them, some of them subconscious or barely conscious, and digging to uproot and resolve them can make things so much better. What belief conflicts can you find that don't serve you? |
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« Reply #15 on: April 11, 2015, 12:32:14 PM » |
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From just reading the text is sounds like they have a sense of humour about themselves. Like mentioned an internal conflict yet a sort of awareness of it and garnering attention to it.
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« Reply #16 on: April 11, 2015, 12:39:28 PM » |
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'Good night, I love you' (the next day she broke up via text and moved out of my house while I was out of town for work). My ex texted me "I love you" literally 6 hours before she broke up with me. She told me the same thing over and over as she's breaking up with me too. I actually believe her. Such a sad disorder. |
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« Reply #17 on: April 11, 2015, 12:54:11 PM » |
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"Since our last break up I haven't been or slept with anyone else" (after a 90 day separation)
"You are my Rock, my go to person." (I get dropped after I discovered she was having affair w/married Boss)
" You know... you really have a lot of issues... you should talk to someone professional" (Umm... yeah right)
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« Reply #18 on: April 11, 2015, 06:39:59 PM » |
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in the end, "Thank you for everything but I got to move on." This same gf used to say "you are evrything and every thing is you for 2 years.
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« Reply #19 on: April 11, 2015, 07:45:29 PM » |
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he also says that "I always have to be right" and that "all I ever do is argue" and calls me "mouth" even though, he is the one that has to be right,he almost always starts the argument (and follows me when I try to walk away from it) and most of the time he can't stop talking (to let me talk).
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Beach_Babe
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« Reply #20 on: April 12, 2015, 12:30:09 AM » |
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Oh you dated him too, Smileypants?
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