I'm not sure what to do

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i have to make up my mind what i want here   i need to see my kids  so ya im kinda ina mess with this   idk what im guna do if she wants to talk   walk away or stay kills me

[shatterd]

i have to make up my mind what i want here   i need to see my kids  so ya im kinda ina mess with this   idk what im guna do if she wants to talk   walk away or stay kills me

[Mutt]

Hi shatterd



I'm sorry to hear that.

When was the last time that you saw your kids?

What do you mean if she wants to talk or walk away?

[shatterd]

last i saw them was 8 days ago   but this pattern of her frekin out n taken off has ben there for sevral years now    idk why i stuck around  and idk why i stay away now  protection order sux but its best for now things were reely bad this time   idk what she realy wants  i dont think she does either  and this pattern its hard to beleive its over for this time   confused hurt lost all that

[Mutt]

Hi shatterd,

The break-up with a pwBPD is painful, confusing and chaotic.

I'm sorry you're going through this.

How many kids?

How old?

She has a protective order on you?

[shatterd]

lota dum drama for sure staying clear of that tho    6 2 and 8mnths   ya the order is against me  its a civil one she made up a story to cops and they laffd st her

[Mutt]

Your kids are young. I'm sorry.

Do you have an L to sort this out?

Do you have a court order?

[shatterd]

monday we have court to see if there extending this order or droping it     but the question is i struggle with  is this the last time shood i just stay away even wen she comes around again?

[Mutt]

What's the stipulation of the protective order?

[shatterd]

no contact with her or kids   court monday to decide

[Mutt]

Listen to your L's advice.

It would be wise to follow the order.

Cross that bridge on Monday.

Good luck in court

Chin up.

----Mutt

[shatterd]

thanx ben waitn on monday draggin    

[Mutt]

I can relate.

Kids need dad too.

Focus your energy on them.