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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Hope0807
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Divorcing & Living Apart
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« on: April 27, 2015, 09:33:07 AM »

We essentially parted ways for what I feel were the right reasons but... .The friends I shattered to the worst during the fallout and trusted the most…I just discovered left my exBPD/Psychopath husband a glowing review on his social media business page.    

The hits just keep on coming. 

What a GIANT knife in the back. 
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Beach_Babe
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« Reply #1 on: April 27, 2015, 11:52:02 PM »

Hi hope. This is just part of the sick triangulation. Your ex badmouthed and probably told lies about you. Its sick, its sad I know exactly how you feel. But you know what, f**k them. You do not need "friends" like this.

We are here for you!  Hang in there ♡
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« Reply #2 on: April 28, 2015, 12:04:36 AM »

I learned after my divorce that my ex constantly told lies about me and was always berating me to others. If people had told me then, I would have left him much sooner! And from what I hear, he is still on a smear campaign against me 3+ years later, with no contact!

I am lucky to have survived a relationship with a BPD person.
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Beach_Babe
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« Reply #3 on: April 28, 2015, 01:42:12 AM »

he is still on a smear campaign against me 3+ years later, with no contact

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Now thats sad.
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