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Should I try contacting one more time before using this airline credit?
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What would be the point? Use it for your good health. You don't owe this guy a dang thing. Enjoy your trip.
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Well that's the thing, I'd be using it to go home. My aunt is sick and my grandmother is 91 years old... .it's not a fun trip or vacation given my npd/BPD parents. They refuse to even pick me up at the airport. I feel guilty not going though
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Quote from: Beach_Babe on June 19, 2015, 10:48:39 PM
Well that's the thing, I'd be using it to go home. My aunt is sick and my grandmother is 91 years old... .it's not a fun trip or vacation given my npd/BPD parents. They refuse to even pick me up at the airport. I feel guilty not going though
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1) I wouldn't feel bad about the airline credit
2) If you want to see your aunt or grandmother, go... .If it's just to make someone else happy, think it over
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I want to see him again. After 6 tries this year, to hear he said he would never see or talk to me again. Using the airline credit is ending the hope. Having a hard time.
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