co-dependency

[Sadly]

  where can I find information about co-dependency please. Sorry if this is the wrong place but I am getting used to being here. I know there is something wrong with me and why the awful sad relationship with my ex pwBPD was allowed to continue for so long. I am as a lot of you know in a terrible pathetic state right now but something has just started ringing alarm bells.

[silver surfer]

Hi Sadly,

sorry to read your story here but getting some awareness is a really good start.

Try looking up CODA or Al Anon also www.hazelden.org/web/public/thought.view?catId=1904

I read this link daily and it helps.

Regards Surfer.

[Sadly]

Thank you very much, I will follow the link and start checking it out. Phew, life can be a surprise sometimes can't it? 

[Darsha500]

Hey Sadly,

In my own self-exploration, I found this book to be helpful: The human magnet syndrome. Other members have also endorsed it. Here is a link to watch a youtube video about it by the author.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHTnot3ioik

I've also just begun reading this book: The White Knight Syndrome: Rescuing yourself from your need to rescue others.

www.amazon.com/The-White-Knight-Syndrome-Rescuing/dp/1572246243

Its been very illuminating.

[Sadly]

Thanks Darsha, going to read everything I can get my hands on if that is what my problem is. (well, that and a crap taste in men) x

[twanda2020]

Co-Dependents Anonymous

www.coda.org/

Info and you can look up to see if there is local Coda Meeting in your area.


ONLINE CoDA Codependents Anonymous Meetings

www.onlinecoda.net/meetings.html

There is also online meetings available. You have to sign up and there is also a forum.

Hope this helps.

[Sadly]

Thank you