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Just when I think she can't cease to amaze me she pulls one right out of left field.
I can't post details on this forum as she browses this forum and will identify me if i say what she was "requesting" of me, but let's just say she has NO understanding of boundries.
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Hi Inferno.
Its good to vent. Just when I think Ive ceased to be surprised by anything my exs do they do something that takes me by surprise.
Were here for you.
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I know how tough it is to not respond to the ridiculous, unrealistic words/behaviours. Remember they are mentally ill and coping. Mine showed incredible lack of boundaries too.
Just continue NC and don't engage in the craziness.
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Protective barriers like blocking are rarely circumvented after the initial extinction burst. Keep the radio silence, take preventive measures and she's going to be out of your life.
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It's hard for anyone to know the rules when there have been recycles…
Has she lost respect for you? I think when that happens, the best thing is to be strong. don't complain, back away, be scarce (not necessarily NC)
I know you still care for her and wish she would engage in a meaningful way. You didn't get that last time around or even now. See it for what it is.
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