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« on: September 10, 2015, 06:58:06 AM »

Just when I think she can't cease to amaze me she pulls one right out of left field.

I can't post details on this forum as she browses this forum and will identify me if i say what she was "requesting" of me, but let's just say she has NO understanding of boundries.

Furious.

Again
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« Reply #1 on: September 10, 2015, 07:12:36 AM »

Hi Inferno.

Its good to vent. Just when I think Ive ceased to be surprised by anything my exs do they do something that takes me by surprise.

Were here for you.
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« Reply #2 on: September 10, 2015, 10:12:09 PM »

I know how tough it is to not respond to the ridiculous, unrealistic words/behaviours. Remember they are mentally ill and coping. Mine showed incredible lack of boundaries too.

Just continue NC and don't engage in the craziness.  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #3 on: September 11, 2015, 07:18:24 AM »

Protective barriers like blocking are rarely circumvented after the initial extinction burst. Keep  the radio silence, take preventive measures and she's going to be out of your life.  
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« Reply #4 on: September 11, 2015, 09:30:30 AM »

It's hard for anyone to know the rules when there have been recycles…

Has she lost respect for you?  I think when that happens, the best thing is to be strong. don't complain, back away, be scarce (not necessarily NC)

I know you still care for her and wish she would engage in a meaningful way.  You didn't get that last time around or even now.  See it for what it is.

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