New Beginning

[joel6242]

My situation has been very bad and I have had to get through this within a couple of weeks. I am close to 30 days NC. I know that this is permanent now. I just moved to Florida and put every penny I had into a house here. When I asked my exBPD guy to leave, he caused about a 10k nightmare and I have very little money and as of Tuesday, it looked like I would have to file bankruptcy and move in with family. It looked very possible that I was going to loose the house. My sister asked me to travel from Florida to Oklahoma for Thanksgiving and I used airline points and went. On the way to the airport I got a call that I got a job that I interviewed for in the morning and asked if I could start Dec 7th. This situation is such a miracle for so many reasons. This is my new start and I will make enough money in December to make everything good by end of January. 

The job is drivable and in Florida. I do not know if my exBPD guy is still in town so I can take me and my dogs away for half of the month. Maybe sleep a couple of night. His pattern is to eventually move. If I want this huge break, I have to stay NC and move on. I read the message board daily and understand how hard it is. This is my big break and I can not waste this. It is my salvage.

[Michelle27]

Congratulations!  I do strongly believe in Karma and this is a perfect example.