Who has had to ended?

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

I'm curious.  I hear of a lot of break ups that stayed that way.  However, how many Nons had to end it after their pwBPD left but actually tried to come back later on? How many of them actually stayed away?  Do they ever give up?

[Joem678]

I'm curious.  I hear of a lot of break ups that stayed that way.  However, how many Nons had to end it after their pwBPD left but actually tried to come back later on? How many of them actually stayed away?  Do they ever give up?

[hashtag_loyal]

I actually broke it off with my ex. She didn't leave, but I eventually figured out about all the lying and cheating.

I think she would like to come back, but there is no way I would ever allow that. We are over a month post b/u, and she had been reaching out to me about every week or so, although currently we are about 12 days NC. I told her to delete my # since she was not being honest, and have not heard from her since.

You should ask the "leaving" board to get a better sense of pwBPD who have been dumped and then never try to come back. There are a lot of members on that board who decided to end their r/s and are much further post b/u than I.