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November 30, 2015, 02:40:25 AM »
Hi staff
Just wondering...
After ending breaking it off with ex BPD/OCD bf two months later I get a text... That says:
You and Rosie( my little dog) should come up and visit sometime...
Why would a person say that... after I explained I couldn't take any more rage or crazy making episodes to create distance, asking for no further contact.,
What on earth could prompt this?
Thank you!
Aldactone...
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Mental illness.
That is behavior that is very familiar to probably all of us, here. My wife is experiencing this, as well, as she deals with my ex-wife. Sometimes even minutes later, it's like nothing ever happened.
There is no other explanation than that. Gotta let that sink in. They are broken.
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Quote from: Marshmellow on November 30, 2015, 02:40:25 AM
What on earth could prompt this?
Push/pull and/or difficulty detaching. This is textbook BPD behavior.
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