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What kind of rules or principles did you have set up around sex in the relationship?
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We were in a monogamous relationship. We both enjoyed it a lot and experimented somewhat.
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So what about post breakup rules around sex?
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Quote from: unicorn2014 on December 20, 2015, 03:12:20 PM
So what about post breakup rules around sex?
There were none. I would just get questioned repeatedly on if I had been with someone else or not. As I would also question him. This breakup was different.
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Right and you said you had sex with him after the breakup, and he had been with someone else. What I am saying is I think its ok to talk to him and you might really want to watch your boundaries around sex with him if you choose to talk to him again.
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