Almost seperated

[Depression = 72% of members]

Love my husband with BPD. He's not violent but emotional stress

[Pinkcandy777]

Love my husband with BPD. He's not violent but emotional stress

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[livednlearned]

Hi Pinkcandy777,

That's a relief to hear he is not violent. Even so, emotional and psychological conflict can take a toll. How did the two of you manage through the holidays?

It sounds like you're planning to separate. Is this something you have both talked about? What kind of behaviors are giving you the most trouble at the moment?

Glad you're here and sharing what you're going through. People here understand, and you're not alone. 

LnL

[Kwamina]

Hi Pinkcandy777

I would like to join livednlearned in welcoming you to bpdfamily.

Could you tell us a bit more about the emotional stress? Has your husband been diagnosed with BPD or any other disorder? Is he perhaps getting any kind of treatment or therapy for his issues?

I encourage you to keep posting and hope to read more of your story later