I use it as a tool, I want to be able to see it on my FB and actually feel indifferent when I see it. Just like when I see my other ex's looking me up on FB. So far it's working pretty well. (I don't look at the profile I just see her face / name show up)
groundbreaker, i have to ask how this is really helping. the reason i ask is because a lot of your focus is on her actions, her relationship, checking to see if shes checking on you. youre entitled to do that, and im not judging, i did it myself. it does not sound like its leading to indifference.
It's so hard to understand why one moment they can't even look at you or speak pleasantly, but then she's trying to see what I've been up to on FB.
if you think about it, arent you both kind of doing the same thing? youre both not speaking, youre both checking up in some form, perhaps even for similar reasons.
One thing still bothers me, and I know it shouldn't. It's the way she looked at me and what she said and how she said it.
You could see just about every emotion all at once just by looking at her eyes.
While looking at me for the first and only time. "I don't care what you do". This was after I said "I guess I'll get going".
that sounds pretty painful groundbreaker. how did/does it make you feel? what did she do that she accused you of doing?
