tying up loose ends after 18 year relationship

[hippyrees1969]

i have recently left my BPD partner of 18 years (on and off). we had a home and business together which i had to leave. i want to get me stuff back but he has changed the locks. being left to cope with it all is overwhelming for him as i was doing everything. i don't know what to do, he has no one to help him deal with it. it has always been me... .

[once removed]

hi hippyrees1969 and

im sorry to hear about the dissolution of your relationship, and i cant imagine the frustration with not being able to retrieve your belongings. eighteen years is a long time. it will help us better understand your situation if you share some of your story; do you have a particular question?