You know how I feel right now.
Look. Neutral. I don't know how you feel. I don't just ask a question for the sake of asking it. A simple answer is fine.
What I feel is utter frustration.
Thank you. Honestly. It comes through in your messages, this 'utter frustration'.
I want to draw your attention to something in your messages. I asked you how you are feeling right now. You are chaining up your sentences. It gives away what you're thinking. There's nothing wrong with it, but it gives some clue as to what is going on.
Look at this. Your conjunctions are in black:
I took it from approaching it backwards. Simply put she has been escalating ridiculous contact for 3 months. But not specifically saying that she wanted to talk or that she wanted to do anything okay. Now with all that I know about this disorder the silence would have probably got the better of her combined with somebody getting sick of her or being lonely and remembering how much I love her. At some point that would have intersected into a meeting or a phone call. And I would have been pining away for her and I would have ended up spending a night making love to her and then getting myself really hurt within a couple weeks when she realized again that she couldn't do it anymore. And then could I sent that email because that's what I would have felt like doing I would have been very very very very angry when I'm only just very angry right now.
The key point of each statement is in pink:
I took it from approaching it backwards. Simply put she has been escalating ridiculous contact for 3 months. But not specifically saying that she wanted to talk or that she wanted to do anything okay. Now with all that I know about this disorder the silence would have probably got the better of her combined with somebody getting sick of her or being lonely and remembering how much I love her. At some point that would have intersected into a meeting or a Fuchsia]phone call[/color]. And I would have been pining away for her and I would have ended up spending a night making love to her and then getting myself really hurt within a couple weeks when she realized again that she couldn't do it anymore. And then could I sent that email because that's what I would have felt like doing I would have been very very very very angry when I'm only just very angry right now.
I am going to ask you a very simple and unloaded question. Do you feel in control of yourself right now? I don't know. That's why I'm asking you.