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« Reply #60 on: April 09, 2016, 11:08:57 AM »

A psychologist actually not a T. But I can't get to her office now as I can't walk due to my illness. I talk to her on the phone every week for half an hour but it's more supportive talks to manage being ill, in pain, alone, scared of loosing my job etc. When I can walk and sit long enough to go to her office I can get some proper work done.

I'm not sure I know the difference between a psychologist and a T - I use them interchangeably! Smiling (click to insert in post) A psychiatrist is definitely in a category of his/her own, however.

I'm sorry to hear about your illness   
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« Reply #61 on: April 09, 2016, 11:10:09 AM »

I'm so confused... .now you're 'giving her the benefit of the doubt'? So you don't think she had an affair?

Benefit of the doubt with respect to her past and red flags early in the relationship.

I do not know with 100% certainty she did have an affair, only that there are enough signs that strongly suggest she was about 2 months prior to her 2nd discard.  The third and last discard came about a month later via text.
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« Reply #62 on: April 09, 2016, 11:10:46 AM »

I'm so confused... .now you're 'giving her the benefit of the doubt'? So you don't think she had an affair?

Benefit of the doubt with respect to her past and red flags early in the relationship.

I understand.  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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« Reply #63 on: April 09, 2016, 11:21:02 AM »

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