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Well, me and my exBPDgf were in contact again. I'll spare you the details.
Anyway, today she texted me: have you already paid the €10 for the wafles (i bought some wafles for some charity). Guess what: she still owes me €70!
I told her : how about my €70? She got all furious!
She said: it's only €10! To which I told her: well, your debt is 7 fold!
I asked her: why are you so angry? To which she said: i don't have to explain that to a 40 year old.
It's funny but then again it's not: it made me realise how f*cked up she is. Back to NC it is!
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It's funny but then again it's not: it made me realise how f*cked up she is. Back to NC it is!
You're on the right path, I think, Tomacini. Well said. No, it's not really funny. LJ
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Yeah, the saddest thing is: this is totally not the woman i fell for! How could she have changed so much?
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I also sent her a text: look this is not working so i hope you understand why i break contact again.
To which she replied several hours later: no i don't understand but you do what you have to do.
In all honesty: this makes me look like the fool
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Quote from: Tomacini on April 29, 2016, 01:00:39 PM
In all honesty: this makes me look like the fool
Does it? She is the one that doesn't understand...
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Quote from: Tomacini on April 29, 2016, 12:51:54 PM
Yeah, the saddest thing is: this is totally not the woman i fell for! How could she have changed so much?
Yes she is... .behind her mask.
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