Just growing pains BH
I'm so angry I got involved with my exgf and we have a child, I'm hounded constantly about saving my son from his mother and the pressure it puts on me.
I have 3 daughters and my ex wife was always there to help.
Now I'm doing it alone and I don't like it, guess what? Tough, my son needs me anyway. Yes growing up is a pain in the *** and I'm not happy about this whole thing.
I'm being a whiny piss ant and want to run away! NC is for the fortunate few who didn't have children.
My son needs me
I have to take care of him
Maybe he can teach me how to grow up
Better late than never... .
I can't get drunk either damn it gurrrr
Picked the wrong week to quit drinking!
Lolololol
someone shoot me
No, better to not drink... .you know that. I understand. I don't think you can expect a child to help you grow up or even cause you to grow up... .you just have to do it. Being an adult is no fun... .Do you have any family that can help you? How old are the daughters? Are they of any help? You might want to think about a vasectomy,
I always told my husband that- he didn't listen and now has a child... .he said he was worried about having to pay the gf alimony and child support, due to the future women,
Anyway... .it's just that mine thought a baby would help him grow up too. I'm not sure it works that way... .I know you know that. Somehow you need to find a way to do low contact - I heard Paul Elam from shrink4men say that men need to realize that once they are divorced, they need to divorce the wife and not the kids. That they are not responsible for what the ex-wife does or to help her anymore. Just the welfare of the kids... .Somehow you need to find a balance. Sorry you are having a rough time... .Proud of you for staying clean... .
