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« on: June 21, 2016, 04:40:45 PM »

Today is the first day I've felt like myself since the breakup-- hopefully this is a harbinger of things to come instead of just the eye of the storm. Fingers crossed!
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« Reply #1 on: June 21, 2016, 04:57:03 PM »

Everything crossed for you KC, it's a good thing you have done today   xx
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« Reply #2 on: June 21, 2016, 07:06:30 PM »

Yes it is a harbinger.  It starts with a few minutes, goes to a few hours and eventually a day and then more.  I am at the daily level now but will say it takes a lot of work and focus.

Congrats to you! 

KC and The Sunshine Band!
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« Reply #3 on: June 22, 2016, 10:41:04 AM »

That's the way, uh huh, uh huh !   Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)  Go, kc!
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« Reply #4 on: June 22, 2016, 05:11:49 PM »

Thanks you guys    ! Today wasn't as great as yesterday, and I felt myself angry at her and ruminating again a bit. But not too bad, all in all, manageable, and worlds better than last week. I made it until almost 5 pm without checking her facebook (yesterday I didn't check it at all!) It's been 5 days NC.
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