I am losing out on things I want in my life because I constantly put me on hold.
First of all... Happy Anniversary! I realize that there may be feelings inside you that don't seem "happy". Here is my hope for you today. That you can find memories that were happy and sit with those. Spend time sitting with the incredibly insensitive remark that your husband made.
All of those feelings are real.
You have been married 10 years, and it would appear that you went through some tough times. Would it be accurate to say that you "survived"?
Can I focus you back on your statement? Perhaps not today... .but in a couple days can you come back and post about what you are loosing out on?
My final hope for you is that you stick with it posting on these boards so you can figure out how to "thrive" for the next few years.
Then when you get an accurate picture of what "thriving" looks like in your r/s, I think you can better assess which board to be on.
What can you do today for some special self care? You deserve it!
FF
