Thanks Lucky Jim.
I am feeling lousy-- this time around (third major breakup) this phrase keeps coming into my head when I feel like this: it's a nightmare that I can't wake up from. It all happened so fast. I know it is probably for the best for the both of us but I miss her so much sometimes.
Okay, off to play tennis. Hopefully that helps.
Hey kc, It sounds like you feel lousy after exchanging texts with your Ex yesterday. What would you like to see happen? Are you hoping to get back together with your Ex? If not, maybe you should limit your contact (go LC) with your Ex. I like your three-pronged approach and concur about leaning into the sharp edges. LJ