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« on: October 15, 2016, 11:09:33 AM »
Out of curiosity who left the BPD and who was left by the BPD?

I left mine, but reading the stories on this forum it seems that most on here were the ones who were left?
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« Reply #1 on: October 15, 2016, 11:11:35 AM »
She left me.  Count yourself lucky you left.  I think its harder the other way around.  I spend too much time trying to figure out what I did wrong.  When it reality,it probably was nothing I did. And nothing I could have done to prevent it
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« Reply #2 on: October 15, 2016, 11:18:47 AM »
This is difficult.  I technically pushed for the divorce, but he said he wanted out.  He's admitted to leaving because he thought I was going to leave first.  But he never physically left, so I finally had to put my foot down.  Who makes the official verdict?
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« Reply #3 on: October 15, 2016, 11:35:56 AM »
She left me.  Everything was great, then BAM! Out of nowhere she was gone.  Literally two days prior we were planning events and had a stellar evening.  She broke my heart and I'm still dealing with the fallout.  This happened in February/March.  Saw her for the first time last night, holding hands with my replacement.  She downgraded. It made me feel terrible.
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« Reply #4 on: October 15, 2016, 11:39:54 AM »
My SO left his uBPDxw.
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« Reply #5 on: October 15, 2016, 01:49:47 PM »
I was dumped while on s trip abroad with her
She was with someone the next day
This after I love you so much etc blah blah to I never want to see you
Probably an excuse to be free to see the other guy
Also I'm certain she knew I was going to end it once we got back from the trip
The trip was a nightmare from her rages to threats of suicide to marking up her arms and drawing blood to vomiting and then flirting with some guy right in front of me
This was less than a week ago
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« Reply #6 on: October 15, 2016, 03:00:31 PM »
Well this time around for me I caught her and left before she could finish her plan on dumping me. But I'm pretty sure she probably saying a different story to people I don't know.
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« Reply #7 on: October 16, 2016, 03:23:28 AM »
Interesting to see that most non's were the ones who were essentially dumped :/

Makes me wonder if mine was a BPD or a full blown stalking psychopath now
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