Do They Disappear After Divorce?

[rosesarered777]

She has already filed a separation of items list. Not sure if she will go through with the divorce but her parents, relatives and probably friends all are telling her to do it.

Will the activity increase post-divorce? I would be surprised if she would want to cut off 7 years completely, knowing what BPDers typically do.

[Herodias]

Depends... .sometimes they don't do it, to keep you tangled up with them, so you feel you can't move on, even though they do with out a care... .Sometimes they do a whirl wind quick thing just to stir everything up. Depends on whether she has someone else sometimes... .Time means nothing to them. I was with mine 10 years. It is about whether or not they can still fool you basically. If they sense they can still get away with using you or fooling you they come back.  If they can't they leave.

[bus boy]

Do they dissappear after divorce... .if your lucky.

[rosesarered777]

Do they dissappear after divorce... .if your lucky.

She has disappeared but I know she has tons of debt that she cannot pay off. ($1000's of dollars) It looks like her family isn't sending her money either. Makes me wonder if she will return simply out of necessity?

[bus boy]

If she returns, show her where the road is. Tell her don't let the door hit your arse on the way out.