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I had custody hearing yesterday, xw bf was there to support her, sounds like the thing a person does but in this case but he sat there supporting her while she lied on the stand under oath. Lied about things he was witness to. How do you support lies under oath? Xw bf seems to take pleasure in how he's helping xw to alienate s10 out of my life as much. This person has a total dislike of me and doesn't even know me and is involved in aspects of my son's life that is none of his business. I think he is under the illusion he has some kind of parenting right in my son's life.
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I'm sorry you are going through this bus boy.
These people are very very sick and this will all come back to them one way or another. The only control you have is your own, don't stoop to thier level and just wait for them to unravel. Stay strong, your son will see through all this one day and ask you how you were able to get through it all.
Share with him how you did it, teach him to be like you.
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