S10 always has long dirty finger nails

[bus boy]

S10 stays with me every second weekend and every Wednesday night. I cut his nails last access weekend, tonight his nails are terrible looking. Xw is very clean, her house is a disaster zone or it was in the past, her BF lives with her now and he's a Frenchman so in my years around the French I can only conclude her house is now clean bc the French keep there houses and yards spotless. I think Xw is spiting me bc I don't respond to her ignorant texts that s10's cavities are my fault. I've had to cut off contact bc she is to ignorant and manuplateing. Long dirty nails look so bad I feel bad for s10.

[Catsmother]

Use the time cutting your son's nails as part of your bonding time. DH frequently cuts his son's nails, as apparently the mother doesn't have any nail clippers.

[bus boy]

Funny you say use it as bonding time, that's what we do. Yesterday we got into a big conversation about pokemons.

[david]

It's those little things that add up over time. Eventually he can learn to do it on his own. It will probably be a source of pride/sense of accomplishment/etc. Doing a bunch of those little things really helps in the long term.

[bus boy]

Hi david, that's my thought, little bonding moments add up.