How does everybody feel on this first day of the new year?

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Hopeful for a good year? Not so hopeful?

We are all at different places in our healing. Some, like myself, waiver from the undecided board to this one.

What do we see for ourselves in the coming year? What do we want?

I would be interested to hear your "resolutions" and plan of action for 2017.  I myself would like 2017 to be less painful than the last 3 years. What ever that entails and however I need to get there. I need a break! I am not saying that there won't be challenges and set backs but my God let me please have a respite from the anguish! I would also like to have some consistent FUN as well.

And I want to get healthy, lose weight, eat right... .which are the same things I say every year.

[michel71]

Hopeful for a good year? Not so hopeful?

We are all at different places in our healing. Some, like myself, waiver from the undecided board to this one.

What do we see for ourselves in the coming year? What do we want?

I would be interested to hear your "resolutions" and plan of action for 2017.  I myself would like 2017 to be less painful than the last 3 years. What ever that entails and however I need to get there. I need a break! I am not saying that there won't be challenges and set backs but my God let me please have a respite from the anguish! I would also like to have some consistent FUN as well.

And I want to get healthy, lose weight, eat right... .which are the same things I say every year.

[Pretty Woman]

Yes and I lost a few thousand dollars doing it.

Don't go that route. You know how she treated and treats you, you don't need a prediction for the future. You need to detach. You are still hoping things work out.

I get it. Been there. Please don't go that route and lose more $.

[michel71]

Honestly I am still dubious. All I know is that it feels so good to have my house back and to have peace and tranquility. So I am enjoying that for now. That is my focus.