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Author Topic: Single mother of teenage BPD who wont get help advice ?  (Read 361 times)
Ozkiwi
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Child
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« on: January 12, 2017, 05:16:17 AM »

  how to survive this continuous turmoil when 18 y o wont go to doc appt headspace or any mental health on offer. Says i am the one that needs help. Been through 5 schools and wants to study rather than work.
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Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders
Ozkiwi
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« Reply #1 on: January 12, 2017, 05:40:11 AM »

Wow first time on site reading example of the life i am living on the BPD roller coaster, feel so relieved to make contact at last with others sharing parenting experiences, we have a different family dynamic to any other familes we may know or secretly compare with.  I just foumd a new normal discusdion group blessed that you are sharing my heart goed out to all mums who feel like ___ living this cycle x
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Relationship status: "Divorced"/abandoned by SO in Feb 2013; Mother with BPD, PTSD, Depression and Anxiety: RIP in 2021.
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« Reply #2 on: January 12, 2017, 10:47:47 PM »

Hello  Ozkiwi,

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Can you share with us about more of the background here? 18 is an adult, and I moved out on my 18th birthday,  but I was working while going to school.  It sounds like she's choosing only one.  Given emotional limitations,  she may not be able to handle that.  This may work for some families,  but what specifically is the impact on your family,  and what other behaviors are you struggling with? We'd love to hear more about how best we can support you  

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