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Before you can make things better, you have to stop making them worse... Have you considered that being critical, judgmental, or invalidating toward the other parent, no matter what she or he just did will only make matters worse? Someone has to be do something. This means finding the motivation to stop making things worse, learning how to interrupt your own negative responses, body language, facial expressions, voice tone, and learning how to inhibit your urges to do things that you later realize are contributing to the tensions.
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Pattieo3
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« on: January 22, 2017, 08:45:31 AM »

Hello, new here.  My husband of 19 years was recently diagnosed after having a psychotic break. He is now living out of the home.  We have 3 kids ages 19, 15 and 13.  Looking for support, advice and friendship from others who are going through this. 
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« Reply #1 on: January 22, 2017, 09:11:10 AM »

Hi Pattieo3,

Welcome

I'm glad you reached out. Support at times like these is so important.  Doing the right thing (click to insert in post)

You'll definitely find members here who have been in similar situations, and understand what you are going through. The site also has tons of resources and tools to help make things better.

When you can, tell us a bit more of your story. Is your husband being treated for BPD? How are you and your children coping?

It really helps to share. We're here for you.

heartandwhole

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« Reply #2 on: January 22, 2017, 10:10:21 AM »

Hi Patieo3

Welcome

I'd like to join heartandwhole and welcome you to  bpdfamily. I'm sorry to hear that. Have family and friends been supportive? Are you seeing a T? Are the kids seeing a T? You're not alone.
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« Reply #3 on: January 24, 2017, 12:05:37 PM »

Psychotic episodes are hard to endure and witness. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Did your kids experience it too?

Any thoughts on what precipitated the psychosis? Usually there is a serious degree of separation stress, from what I gather.

How are you doing?

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