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I'm feeling pretty hopeless tonight. I've been through it all with my husband and it doesn't seem worth it to keep going.
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Welcome Maggie234:
Sorry to hear you are having a tough time. What's going on? This is a safe place to share. When you are ready to share more, we are here to listen.
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Hi Maggie234
I am sorry to hear you're feeling this way. I understand as I feel the same. It is nice to know I'm not alone.
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Hi. I don't know either. I am asking myself the same question. I'd like to hear more of what you are going through, I'm new to this. Just figured it out and found this website. A lot of soul searching, a lot of miracles but its so painful. I've been with my partner for two and a half years and sometimes it seems so worth it, and sometimes it feels like i've been knocked flat. Over and over and over again. And I wonder if I'm an idiot for staying.
Anyway, share if you want, if it would help. Blessings.
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