Not sure what to do anymore

[Isthepainworthit]

I have been with my common law husband for 7 years.
He did not tell me he had BPD when I met him, which I feel was deceitful but tried to be understanding, which has caused me so much pain and agony.
We have twins now, who my partner has had many episodes in front of, so I am dealing with that.
We are now separated because I do not know how to deal with it anymore, it is making me physically sick

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[heartandwhole]

Hi Isthepainworthit,



I'm sorry you are in pain and feeling sick right now. That is so understandable, especially with two young children to care for. I'm glad you reached out to the forum, as the members here understand, and have been where you are. The good news is that there is hope—things can get better for you and your husband. 

When and how did you find out about BPD? How old are your twins?

Keep posting. It helps to share your story. We're here to support you.

heartandwhole