you cant force someone to spend time with you that they arent prepared to give.
she has, in very clear terms, spelled that out.
pushing for more will push anyone in her position away.
I then reach out on tiktok, not blocked. Why keep this line of communication open
im not sure theres any reason needed that she has blocked you everywhere else but one place. it does not undo the fact that she blocked you everywhere else. if she isnt responding to you there, shes not "keeping a line of communication open", and its not an invitation for more.
It’s like she forgot all the time we spent together before jail and in jail.
i get that this hurts, and that you miss that time. ive been there.
a hard fact is that relationships fizzle out. one experience may mean two different things, or hold different significance, for two different people.
trying to force someone back into, or to share our experience is generally a losing battle, and can make us look aggressive. people respond to that by putting up walls (blocking). continuing to try to get over the walls someone has generally causes that person to build even higher walls.
the best thing you can do for yourself in this case, is to heed this, and to stop contacting her. truthfully, things may be past the point that she would lower those walls, but the thing you can do that is most likely to get her to do that, is to send the message that you accept (and respect) them.
