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Been watching an old lonely sap with money I know getting love-bombed by a BPD I know. They are magical spell weavers who know how to become one with you and it's effing hard to watch him finally giving in, around the holidays. Folks, I know it's especially hard for you on the Holidays, but always remember that BPD is a mental illness and you will get hurt again if you give in to them. They cannot help the way they ar, even if you do everything you can for them, they will go off on you. Please do not give in to this addictive toxic spell. Do not go near them, or charm them on social media, or you will inevitably get hurt again. Your Holidays in the future will be a little more peaceful and happy in time if you maintain NC.
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Merry Christmas to you GlennT,
I’m enjoying the peace you described without the BPD stbxh.
He tried to charm me into my role as his favourite person while picking up the children. He was in tears and our 7 year old asked why he was crying.
I ignored it and went ahead with my day. I don’t know what’s going through his mind to think I may be attracted to a man in tears.
Good riddance!!
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