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« on: February 06, 2025, 05:35:48 AM »
I chased her initially I realy fancied her so their was no love bombing or anything just a phone call and we ended up in bed is tjis normal ...it was urs afte4 that I found out about her cheating ,,not only when sh3 was with me but previous men
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« Reply #1 on: February 06, 2025, 07:57:05 PM »
Normal is a relative word, and there's nothing really normal about BPD patterns from one person to another.  Many are sexually adventurous though and jump into new relationships quickly.
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« Reply #2 on: February 08, 2025, 05:40:20 AM »
That’s the thing thpugh she wasn’t that sexually adventurous she was quite cold she was with a guy when I slept with her ,,no condom ,,,and they were on shaker ground but I learned yrs after at this time their was a third bloke involved to
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« Reply #3 on: February 08, 2025, 05:42:13 AM »
He confessed to me in a pub yrs after with tears in his eyes ,the guy she wS with was booted and I moved in because she had her own place ( via divorce money )
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« Reply #4 on: February 08, 2025, 05:43:39 AM »
It’s th3 strangest thing she seems to follow me about like a ghost when I’ve forgotten about something pops up
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« Reply #5 on: February 08, 2025, 05:46:04 AM »
2 yrs after split outside a pub in town guy comes up to me says ,you were seeing that girl ,I took her to a rave one weekend we took ecstasy I fxxxked her all weekend and took pictures of her on Sunday ,,
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« Reply #6 on: February 08, 2025, 05:47:25 AM »
In different country around ten yrs ago mate emails me saying isn’t this your ex ,,semi nude pics online ,,the pics that guy took ..
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« Reply #7 on: February 08, 2025, 05:49:45 AM »
Last week ( 22 yrs after split
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« Reply #8 on: February 08, 2025, 05:51:03 AM »
Mate sends me amateur pornn film with her in,,think it was when we splitting up.its an old film
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« Reply #9 on: February 08, 2025, 05:52:34 AM »
Triggered me after 22 yrs because it’s like wtf porrn
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« Reply #10 on: February 08, 2025, 05:54:56 AM »
It’s bizzare it comes out of th3 blue she’s haunting me
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« Reply #11 on: February 08, 2025, 05:56:09 AM »
...like a sucubus
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« Reply #12 on: February 08, 2025, 05:58:35 AM »
Bought up memory’s I had forgotten.i rember catching her french kissing with a guy at a party and she dine come home after for three hrs ,her excuse in the morning was ,,it wasn’t in our bed ,,
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« Reply #13 on: February 08, 2025, 05:59:29 AM »
That’s alright then
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« Reply #14 on: February 08, 2025, 06:00:58 AM »
Point with my initial post was she was alwys very quite some people commented they found her cold ..
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« Reply #15 on: February 08, 2025, 06:02:08 AM »
An odd thing looking back she told a mate she ,loved me dearly,but I could never get her to kiss me passionately,it was alwys like she was withholding something with me .
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« Reply #16 on: February 08, 2025, 06:03:35 AM »
Not blowing my own trumpet I’m not a bad looking guy and have alwys had no trouble with female company ...
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