I chased her initially

[Depression = 72% of members]

I chased her initially I realy fancied her so their was no love bombing or anything just a phone call and we ended up in bed is tjis normal ...it was urs afte4 that I found out about her cheating ,,not only when sh3 was with me but previous men

[Yamo]

I chased her initially I realy fancied her so their was no love bombing or anything just a phone call and we ended up in bed is tjis normal ...it was urs afte4 that I found out about her cheating ,,not only when sh3 was with me but previous men

[Pook075]

Normal is a relative word, and there's nothing really normal about BPD patterns from one person to another.  Many are sexually adventurous though and jump into new relationships quickly.

[Yamo]

That’s the thing thpugh she wasn’t that sexually adventurous she was quite cold she was with a guy when I slept with her ,,no condom ,,,and they were on shaker ground but I learned yrs after at this time their was a third bloke involved to

[Yamo]

He confessed to me in a pub yrs after with tears in his eyes ,the guy she wS with was booted and I moved in because she had her own place ( via divorce money )

[Yamo]

It’s th3 strangest thing she seems to follow me about like a ghost when I’ve forgotten about something pops up

[Yamo]

2 yrs after split outside a pub in town guy comes up to me says ,you were seeing that girl ,I took her to a rave one weekend we took ecstasy I fxxxked her all weekend and took pictures of her on Sunday ,,

[Yamo]

In different country around ten yrs ago mate emails me saying isn’t this your ex ,,semi nude pics online ,,the pics that guy took ..

[Yamo]

Last week ( 22 yrs after split

[Yamo]

Mate sends me amateur pornn film with her in,,think it was when we splitting up.its an old film

[Yamo]

Triggered me after 22 yrs because it’s like wtf porrn

[Yamo]

It’s bizzare it comes out of th3 blue she’s haunting me

[Yamo]

...like a sucubus

[Yamo]

Bought up memory’s I had forgotten.i rember catching her french kissing with a guy at a party and she dine come home after for three hrs ,her excuse in the morning was ,,it wasn’t in our bed ,,

[Yamo]

That’s alright then

[Yamo]

Point with my initial post was she was alwys very quite some people commented they found her cold ..

[Yamo]

An odd thing looking back she told a mate she ,loved me dearly,but I could never get her to kiss me passionately,it was alwys like she was withholding something with me .

[Yamo]

Not blowing my own trumpet I’m not a bad looking guy and have alwys had no trouble with female company ...